Girly bling: mom gets some too!

L. has a gaudy ring, probably acquired out of some grocery-store quarter machine that she gave me to wear. I put it on for five minutes or so to humor her, and then put it away in a little bowl that I keep rings in.

Weeks later, she fished it out and said “Wear it!” So I did. It happens to fit. And while the first moments of wearing something like that out in the world were a little weird — “What IS the cashier thinking?” — it’s fun to pull off flash like that. It’s cheap and sparkly and without my daughter, I’d never have even thought to wear it.

L. likes to dress me for nights out, shooting herself right into the bathroom as I dress to start the committee meeting on my appearance. Generally, I disappoint her regularly. My flat shoes always elicit a “Really??” sigh, and my earring are much too restrained and non-dangly. She does her little pout. I soothe her by letting her swipe a little mascara on her already gorgeous eyelashes.

This is a fun part of having daughters — the shocking pink barrettes that I sneak into my hair, bracelets made out of thick rainbow-colored wool, the handmade earrings with five orange beads on them. I love wearing all of them like badges of motherhood.

But the ring I’ve been wearing a fair amount. It’s turned into a nice secret hug when I go about my day looking at it, a bond between her and me. I like that feeling so much I may wear it even when her taste has moved on to the classier and more expensive.

But right now, my newly-9-year-old wants her mother to sail out into the world with it sparkling on her finger. How can I resist?

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6 Responses to Girly bling: mom gets some too!

  1. I have boys…they egg me on to fart and burp. It’s just not the same I’m afraid but funny nonetheless. I not so secretly wanted a girl as my second, but it’s just not in the cards, I’m afraid.

    PS. You have gorgeous nails…I’d kill to have nailbeds that looked that healthy.

    • growingmygirls says:

      Thank you Sandy! No, I can see that it’s not the same, but my oldest is a burp and fart queen and when her friends come over, it’s just gross and hilarious at the same time! I’m glad I’m not being asked to demonstrate my skills — my “on purpose” skills are not very good, so I just go the shocked and grossed-out route and that cracks them up.

  2. Molly says:

    I second your manicure- great nails! My girls don’t understand why I never wear the 3″ heels that have been sitting in my closet for over a decade. It’s a consistent disappointment to them.

  3. growingmygirls says:

    Thanks Molly — no manicure, just thanks to my mom for her elegant fingers! I’d like to see those 3″ers some time! 😉 I will admit that this past summer’s Grecian-bondage wedge thing caught my interest and left me wondering if I dared. Haven’t dared yet…

  4. Christine Brooks says:

    Wounderful post, I too have boys, I love the idea of your girls helping you get ready and gifting you the ring, I too would cherish wearing it. Lovely images, thanks.

    • growingmygirls says:

      Thank you! It’s lovely having girls. Have often wondered how different life would be with boys….;-). Thanks for stopping by Christine!

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